Friday, August 21, 2015

8-21-15 Puzzling and Pondering


Think of Mary and all she had been through. A young girl, she was going down a path no one else had ever travelled. The whispers, the outright mocking, even Joseph did not believe her. But she knew. 

When you think about it, Mary was the ONLY ONE who knew for sure that what she said was true, the only one who had first-hand knowledge of what had happened. So, what might the world have told Mary she was?

Slut
Unclean
Liar
Delusional
Disappointment

I imagine each experience of having someone verify what she knew—Elizabeth, Joseph, the shepherds—would be like water on a dry plant. The relief that there was someone she could just relax around, not having to defend herself. She could just soak it in and remember it again and again. 

Luke 2:19 says: "All who heard the shepherds’ story were astonished, but Mary kept all these things in her heart and thought about them often." I'll bet she did! Those may have been the things that kept her going when times got tough because I am guessing the whispers did not stop after His birth. 


When Jesus was dying on the cross (John 19), maybe she remembered those early affirmations. Maybe those early hard situations made her able to trust in God during this terrible, awful day. And on that day, when He surely had big, huge things on His mind, like saving the world, He looked down on His little mother and took care of her. Maybe she pondered that for a long time, too. 

A God so big as to save us all, but so detailed that He will look at one woman and comfort her. 

What does the world tell us we are?

Fat
Ugly
Stupid
Unloved
Forgotten
Alone
Hopeless


My mind seems to go back to bad times, bad decisions, times I failed, when it wanders (especially late at night when I'm up all alone). I feel regret that things happened or that I didn’t do this or that. I tend to forget the affirmations I received or the assurance that each event was for a reason, to bring me to this point (and further).

What if I looked back on some of the landmark, life changing things that happened to me throughout my life. My not fitting in with friends, my parents dying when I was in my 20's, getting cancer the first time, taking in a 3-year-old foster boy, saying "good bye" to that same boy four years later, getting cancer the second time. Each of those events was hard, hard, hard to go through. Now I can say they were necessary (well, usually I can say that.) But there were affirmations. Times when others told me God loved me or that He carried me or that they loved me through the pain. Those things formed the person that is me. 

In Bible study last night we made a jigsaw puzzle with those hard pieces. Then we added an affirmation from God around the border. I need to remember the affirmation whenever those hard times threaten to take over my feelings and mind. Ponder those words that offered me comfort. FYI, my affirmation was John 15:15: "Now you are my friends, since I have told you everything the Father told me." So, my assignment is now to ponder those words and my Friend.


Question: "What does the Bible say about self-worth?"

Answer: The Bible actually has many passages that tell us what God has to say about our worth and our value in His eyes. Genesis 1:26-27 says we are made in His image, the very image of God. Psalm 139:13-16 says we are fearfully and wonderfully made, and all the days of our lives were written in God’s book before we were ever born, confirming God’s prior knowledge and plan for our lives. Ephesians 1:4 says God chose His children before the foundations of the earth were ever formed, and in Ephesians 1:13-14 we’re told we are God’s own possession, chosen for the praise of His glory, and that we have an inheritance in heaven with Him as His children.

But notice the wording in each of the above phrases: “are made,” “are fearfully and wonderfully made,” “were written,” “God chose His children,” “we are God’s own possession,” and “we have an inheritance.” These phrases all have one thing in common: they are things done to us or for us by God. These are not things we have done for ourselves, nor have we earned or deserved them. We are, in fact, merely the recipients of “all spiritual blessings in heavenly places in Christ” (Ephesians 1:3). Therefore, we can conclude that our worth is not really of the “self” at all; rather, it is worth given to us by God. We are of inestimable value to Him because of the price He paid to make us worthy—the death of His Son on the cross.

The Bible tells us that “while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us” (Romans 5:8). In fact, we “were dead in trespasses and sins” (Ephesians 2:1). What worth is there in dead things? None. God imputed to us His own righteousness (2 Corinthians 5:21) not because we were worthy of it, but because we were unworthy, unlovable, and unable to make ourselves worthy in any way. But—and here’s the miracle—He actually loved us in spite of our condition (John 3:16), and because He did, we now have infinite worth.

John 1:12 tells us that to those who received Christ and believed in His name, God gave the right to become His children. First John 1:9 tells us that if we confess our sins, He is faithful to forgive our sins and cleanse us from all unrighteousness. If we focus on how much God loves us and the price He paid to redeem us, we’ll come to see ourselves as God sees us, and that will help us understand just how much we’re really worth as children of the most high God.

Our self-worth is too often based on what other people tell us about ourselves. The one, true authority on our self-worth is Jesus Christ, and since He gave His own life up for us by dying on a cross, that should tell us just how valuable we really are.


Who has He made you to be?

I am God's child.

I am Jesus' friend.

I am a whole new person with a whole new life.

I am a place where God's Spirit lives.

I am God's Incredible work of art.

I am totally and completely forgiven.

I am created In God's likeness.

I am spiritually alive.

I am a citizen of Heaven.

I am God's messenger to the world.

I am God's disciple-maker.

I am the salt of the earth.

I am the light of the world.

I am greatly loved.




           




Friday, August 14, 2015

8-14-15 I AM America!


Hello Again!

I AM America. 

Since Loy is a business/marketing professor, our home is very marketing oriented. We tape the Super Bowl commercials, not the game. I will say I like a certain ad and am quizzed about "What was the commercial for?" (Because it's not a good commercial just because you like it, it's only a good commercial if you remember what it was for!) Loy is always showing me ads before they're officially released that he gets from his secret marketing journals.

So, sometimes I will say something really innocent like, "I am really preferring the gel soap, as opposed to the bar soap." A few weeks later Loy will bring home a secret marketing journal article that says, "Americans Prefer Gel Soap." Or I might say, "Ranch dressing is tasting really good on everything, not just salad." You guessed it, Loy will show me a secret marketing website that says "Americans Are Going Nuts for Ranch Dressing." I'm not saying I'm leading the trend, just that I'm right there in the throngs of the Average Joe American. 

(Loy will probably now have to kill me now because I gave away the secret marketing journals! Good bye, my friends!)  :)

As America, I want to say that I have been really, really disturbed by what I see as America slipping away. I am feeling disgusted and scared and powerless. It feels like this is the worst things have ever, ever been. 

In MY lifetime, maybe. 

Biblical Instances of Decadent Times:

Sodom and Gomorrah-LGBT issues (Genesis 18:29; Luke 17:28)
Ancient Rome-sacrificing to other gods
Jesus' Times-racial division
Egypt-slavery and baby killing (Exodus 1:22)
After Israel Left Egypt-no sense of God (Exodus 32:6; Psalm 78:10-11, 40-42, 56-57)
Noah's Times-all around evil (Genesis 6:5, 9-11; Luke 17:26-27)
Ninevah-wickedness (Jonah 1:2)
David-unintended pregnancy
Tower of Babel-power seeking

But there were always believers…always a remnant. And God is never surprised and somehow everything always works out for God’s will to be done. Who appoints the leaders? Are we too late?

1 Samuel 24:4-7 Then the men of David said to him, "This is the day of which the LORD said to you, 'Behold, I will deliver your enemy into your hand, that you may do to him as it seems good to you.' " And David arose and secretly cut off a corner of Saul's robe. Now it happened afterward that David's heart troubled him because he had cut Saul's robe. And he said to his men, "The LORD forbid that I should do this thing to my master, the Lord's anointed, to stretch out my hand against him, seeing he is the anointed of the LORD." So David restrained his servants with these words, and did not allow them to rise against Saul. And Saul got up from the cave and went on his way.

Psalm 2:1-4 Why do the nations rage and the peoples plot in vain? The kings of the earth set themselves, and the rulers take counsel together, against the Lord and against his Anointed, saying, “Let us burst their bonds apart and cast away their cords from us.” He who sits in the heavens laughs; the Lord holds them in derision.

Psalm 22:28 For kingship belongs to the Lord, and he rules over the nations.

Proverbs 21:1 The king's heart is a stream of water in the hand of the Lord; he turns it wherever he will.

Daniel 2:20-23 Daniel answered and said: “Blessed be the name of God forever and ever, to whom belong wisdom and might. He changes times and seasons; he removes kings and sets up kings; he gives wisdom to the wise and knowledge to those who have understanding; he reveals deep and hidden things; he knows what is in the darkness, and the light dwells with him. To you, O God of my fathers, I give thanks and praise, for you have given me wisdom and might, and have now made known to me what we asked of you, for you have made known to us the king's matter.”

Romans 13:1-4 Let every person be subject to the governing authorities. For there is no authority except from God, and those that exist have been instituted by God. Therefore whoever resists the authorities resists what God has appointed, and those who resist will incur judgment. For rulers are not a terror to good conduct, but to bad. Would you have no fear of the one who is in authority? Then do what is good, and you will receive his approval, for he is God's servant for your good. But if you do wrong, be afraid, for he does not bear the sword in vain. For he is the servant of God, an avenger who carries out God's wrath on the wrongdoer. Therefore one must be in subjection, not only to avoid God's wrath but also for the sake of conscience. ...

Titus 3:1-2 Remind them to be submissive to rulers and authorities, to be obedient, to be ready for every good work, to speak evil of no one, to avoid quarreling, to be gentle, and to show perfect courtesy toward all people.

1 Peter 2:13-14, 17- Submit yourselves to every human authority for the Lord’s sake, whether it be to the king, as supreme, or to governors, as sent by him for the punishment of evildoers and to praise those who do right….Honor all people. Love the brotherhood. Fear God. Honor the king.

So, can I do anything???

Jeremiah 29:7 But seek the welfare of the city where I have sent you into exile, and pray to the Lord on its behalf, for in its welfare you will find your welfare.

Romans 12:2 Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind, that by testing you may discern what is the will of God, what is good and acceptable and perfect.

2 Chronicles 7:14 If my people who are called by my name humble themselves, and pray and seek my face and turn from their wicked ways, then I will hear from heaven and will forgive their sin and heal their land.

But, obviously God did not mean for times like now…these are the worst!

Once upon a time there was a boy born in Antium, Italy. His name was Lucius Domitius Ahenobarbus. His was a wealthy family, his mother descending from the Emperor Augustus.

When still a young boy, Lucius’s father died and his mother remarried her uncle, Emperor Claudius. The Emperor adopted Lucius as his eldest son and renamed him Nero Claudius Caesar Drusus Germanicus.  Four years later Nero married Claudius’ daughter.

The very next year Claudius died. Rumors and suspicions ran wild that Nero’s mother poisoned Claudius so that her son could be emperor. Five years after that Nero repaid the favor by having his mother killed.

A few years later Nero divorced his wife and then had her killed, all for love. A few years later, he had her killed.

Some of the Roman senators questioned his actions. You guessed it…he had them killed.

He had a grand vision of building a series of palaces that he would name, humbly, Neropolis.  The Senate objected to this.  It is said that he had the city burned to get his ambition fulfilled. After the fire, 2/3 of Rome had been destroyed. He was, conveniently, miles away.

It is said that Nero watched Rome burn while merrily playing his fiddle. Gangs of thugs prevented citizens from fighting the fire with threats of torture, Tacitus wrote. There is some support for the theory that Nero leveled the city on purpose.

Nero himself blamed the fire on an obscure new Jewish religious sect called the Christians, whom he indiscriminately and mercilessly crucified. During gladiator matches he would feed Christians to lions, and he often lit his garden parties with the burning carcasses of Christian human torches. He would cover Christians with the skins of wild animals and then sic a pack of dogs on them. Nice guy.

(In the interest of full disclosure, at that time some Roman Christians believed in prophecies predicting that Rome would soon be destroyed by fire. Perhaps the fire was set off by someone hoping to make the prediction come true. Mostly people think it was Nero, but I want to be fair.)

After being emperor for 14 years, the military leaders feared Nero’s cruelty and wild suspicions and he committed suicide shortly after.

--Secrets of the Dead, Unearthing History, PBS
--World Book Encyclopedia, Copyright 1990

This was all happening when Paul said:

 1 Tim 2:1-4 I urge you, first of all, to pray for all people. Ask God to help them; intercede on their behalf, and give thanks for them. Pray this way for kings and all who are in authority so that we can live peaceful and quiet lives marked by godliness and dignity. This is good and pleases God our Savior, ...


If Paul could say to pray for our leaders, to pray for Nero, we should be praying for our own government!!

Pray for:
  • ·      Their health and safety. (Ezra 6:10; 1 Peter 2:13-14) ho do wrong and to honor those who do right.)
  • ·      They would follow the Lord’s ways and repent if they don’t. (2 Chronicles 33:1-20--this is an incredibly long passage, but I didn't remember ever reading it before. It's never too late!!) 

33 Manasseh was twelve years old when he became king, and he reigned in Jerusalem fifty-five years. He did what was evil in the Lord’s sight, following the detestable practices of the pagan nations that the Lord had driven from the land ahead of the Israelites. He rebuilt the pagan shrines his father, Hezekiah, had broken down. He constructed altars for the images of Baal and set up Asherah poles. He also bowed before all the powers of the heavens and worshiped them.
He built pagan altars in the Temple of the Lord, the place where the Lord had said, “My name will remain in Jerusalem forever.” He built these altars for all the powers of the heavens in both courtyards of the Lord’s Temple. Manasseh also sacrificed his own sons in the fire in the valley of Ben-Hinnom. He practiced sorcery, divination, and witchcraft, and he consulted with mediums and psychics. He did much that was evil in the Lord’s sight, arousing his anger.
Manasseh even took a carved idol he had made and set it up in God’s Temple, the very place where God had told David and his son Solomon: “My name will be honored forever in this Temple and in Jerusalem—the city I have chosen from among all the tribes of Israel.If the Israelites will be careful to obey my commands—all the laws, decrees, and regulations given through Moses—I will not send them into exile from this land that I set aside for your ancestors.” But Manasseh led the people of Judah and Jerusalem to do even more evil than the pagan nations that the Lord had destroyed when the people of Israel entered the land.
10 The Lord spoke to Manasseh and his people, but they ignored all his warnings. 11 So the Lord sent the commanders of the Assyrian armies, and they took Manasseh prisoner. They put a ring through his nose, bound him in bronze chains, and led him away to Babylon. 12 But while in deep distress, Manasseh sought the Lord his God and sincerely humbled himself before the God of his ancestors. 13 And when he prayed, the Lordlistened to him and was moved by his request. So the Lord brought Manasseh back to Jerusalem and to his kingdom. Then Manasseh finally realized that the Lord alone is God!
14 After this Manasseh rebuilt the outer wall of the City of David, from west of the Gihon Spring in the Kidron Valley to the Fish Gate, and continuing around the hill of Ophel. He built the wall very high. And he stationed his military officers in all of the fortified towns of Judah. 15 Manasseh also removed the foreign gods and the idol from the Lord’s Temple. He tore down all the altars he had built on the hill where the Temple stood and all the altars that were in Jerusalem, and he dumped them outside the city. 16 Then he restored the altar of the Lord and sacrificed peace offerings and thanksgiving offerings on it. He also encouraged the people of Judah to worship the Lord, the God of Israel. 17 However, the people still sacrificed at the pagan shrines, though only to the Lord their God.
18 The rest of the events of Manasseh’s reign, his prayer to God, and the words the seers spoke to him in the name of the Lord, the God of Israel, are recorded in The Book of the Kings of Israel. 19 Manasseh’s prayer, the account of the way God answered him, and an account of all his sins and unfaithfulness are recorded in The Record of the Seers.[b] It includes a list of the locations where he built pagan shrines and set up Asherah poles and idols before he humbled himself and repented. 20 When Manasseh died, he was buried in his palace. Then his son Amon became the next king.
The rest of the events of Manasseh’s reign, his prayer to God, and the words the seers spoke to him in the name of the Lord, the God of Israel, are recorded in The Book of the Kings of Israel. Manasseh’s prayer, the account of the way God answered him, and an account of all his sins and unfaithfulness are recorded in The Record of the Seers. It includes a list of the locations where he built pagan shrines and set up Asherah poles and idols before he humbled himself and repented. When Manasseh died, he was buried in his palace. Then his son Amon became the next king.)
  • ·They would govern with wisdom for the “welfare of the city” (Jeremiah 29:7) and not personal gain or for the advantage of a favored few. Concern for the well being of all.
  • ·That God would accomplish His purposes through them regardless of their willingness to be used by Him. (Proverbs 21:1)

Remember, God is unimpressed by political power. (Isaiah 40:15-17 Instead, you will be brought down to the place of the dead, down to its lowest depths. Everyone there will stare at you and ask, ‘Can this be the one who shook the earth and made the kingdoms of the world tremble?

Is this the one who destroyed the world and made it into a wasteland? Is this the king who demolished the world’s greatest cities and had no mercy on his prisoners?’; 22-24 God sits above the circle of the earth. The people below seem like grasshoppers to him!  He spreads out the heavens like a curtain and makes his tent from them. He judges the great people of the world and brings them all to nothing. They hardly get started, barely taking root, when he blows on them and they wither. The wind carries them off like chaff..)

God is not threatened by them. We shouldn’t be either. (Daniel 4:17 For this has been decreed by the messengers; it is commanded by the holy ones, so that everyone may know that the Most High rules over the kingdoms of the world. He gives them to anyone he chooses—even to the lowliest of people.”)

--“5 Ways to Pray for Government Leaders You Don’t Agree With,” Rob Schwarzwalder, Senior Vice President for the Family Research Council, aired on Charisma Podcast Network, 2014


And one last thought...often I think that the nation needs to humble itself. That vague concept of everyone, but I don't make it real to mean ME. I need to humble myself. 

If physically able, pray on your knees, not because we think that will be an extra postage stamp on our prayer—a way of making sure God sees our piety. But, as a way to humble ourselves and help our minds stay on the prayer. Pray for our President and Vice President and unnamed advisors. Pray for the upcoming election and candidates. 




Friday, August 7, 2015

8-7-15 We've All Gone Coconuts


Hello again,

First off, let me tell you that formatting is evidently not my thing. When I preview this blog there are ugly white spots here and there and I have no idea why!! So sorry!! You don't pay the big bucks to read this to have ugly formatting...oh, wait, you don't play the small bucks either!  :)

I had another great time with the Bible study gals last night!

We divided ourselves into squads last week and today we met with our squads and came up with a name, a theme verse, and a mission. Here's a summary of that:

"Signed, Sealed, Delivered...We're Ears" (formerly known as the "Ears.")
Verse: And now you Gentiles have also heard the truth, the Good News that God saves you. And when you believed in Christ, he identified you as his own by giving you the Holy Spirit, whom he promised long ago. The Spirit is God’s guarantee that he will give us the inheritance he promised and that he has purchased us to be his own people. He did this so we would praise and glorify him. -- Ephesians 1:13-14
Mission: To listen, really listen to others.

"Reach Out and Touch Someone" (formerly known as the "Hand.")
Verse: She extends a helping hand to the poor and opens her arms to the needy. -- Proverbs 31:20
Mission: To help others in need.

"Diffusers" (formerly known as the "Noses.")
Verse: But thank God! He has made us his captives and continues to lead us along in Christ’s triumphal procession. Now he uses us to spread the knowledge of Christ everywhere, like a sweet perfume. Our lives are a Christ-like fragrance rising up to God. But this fragrance is perceived differently by those who are being saved and by those who are perishing. -- 2 Corinthians 2:14-15
Mission: To be Christlike to others--we are a fragrance whether we want to be or not...is a good one or a bad one??

"Women of Vision" (formerly the "Eyes")
Verse: Open my eyes to see the wonderful truths in your instructions. -- Psalm 119:18
Mission: To help others see like God sees.

"Joyful Noise" (formerly the "Tongue.")
Verse: May the words of my mouth and the meditation of my heart be pleasing to you,
    Lord, my rock and my redeemer. -- Psalm 19:14
Mission: To encourage one another.

The purpose of theses "squads" is to divide up the caring for each other in the study. To subdivide this large group into smaller, more knowable, groups of people. To develop prayer relationships with those in your group. 

Next, we took Day 47 of our "Whispers of Hope" book and studied that section of Scripture in more depth. I am definitely not a scholar, so I was thinking that possibly I'm not alone. So we used the Navigator article "How to Study the Bible" ("Discipleship Journal," Issue 90 (1995). In that article they list seven steps to study. Here is what the Diffusers came up with:

Verse: For I have told you often before, and I say it again with tears in my eyes, that there are many whose conduct shows they are really enemies of the cross of Christ. They are headed for destruction. Their god is their appetite, they brag about shameful things, and they think only about this life here on earth. But we are citizens of heaven, where the Lord Jesus Christ lives. And we are eagerly waiting for him to return as our Savior. He will take our weak mortal bodies and change them into glorious bodies like his own, using the same power with which he will bring everything under his control. -- Philippians 3:18-21

1. What is the background?
This was written to the church in Philippi by Paul and Timothy. It is mostly encouraging them.

2. Write the verse in your own words:
This world is not my home. We are eager for Jesus to return and will be transformed at that time.

3. What questions do you have?
What does "glorious body" look like? What is it?
What things are the "earthly things" that I should not be thinking about? Do I think of them?
What does it mean to be a citizen? (Dictionary definition: we owe allegiance and are entitled to protection)
Are the ones that are really enemies former believers? 

4. Cross References:
Ephesians 2:29
Ephesians 1:5
Galatians 3:26-4:7
Romans 8:15-17
2 Thessalonians 3:3

5. Insights/Observations.
These people had no shame about their sin. (Compare to today's world!)
No absolute truth.
They are excited about the upcoming return of Jesus.
Jesus is powerful over all. 
Reminiscent of Esau selling his birthright for a bowl of soup--god is belly.

6. Personal Application/What should I do with this?
Remember where I belong.
Analyze my thoughts and actions--are they earthly?
Am I more consumed with things of the earth that will pass away than the eternal?

7. Title and Summarize:
Beam me up, Scotty!!!

That's just what we came up with. The other groups probably had different ideas. 

Next, we played the game I invented that I like to call "Coconuts." (Maybe I'll sell it to Parker Bros. and make a million!!) 

Everyone was handed $1 in our new currency, which we called "coconuts." (Actually they were old business cards.) Then I handed out a list of different things that could be done to earn more coconuts. The goal is to get as many coconuts as you can.

Task
Coconut Value
Do 5 jumping jacks
1
Give someone a hug (with their permission)
2
Ask someone their favorite Bible verse and listen as they tell you.
3
Windex one glass table in front of the fireplace.
3
Tell someone a spiritual struggle you’ve had this week
3
Say something encouraging to someone.
2
Tell a good, clean joke.
2
Ask someone how their children, pets, or work is going. Listen.
3
Rub your head and pat your tummy simultaneously for 10 seconds.
1
Write (on an index card) one “good deed” you plan to do this week.
2
On how many different days did you read “Whispers of Hope” this week?
# of days=#of coconuts
What squad are you on?
1
On the whiteboard, write one place someone could minister (volunteer) in Lincoln.
2
Give someone a shoulder rub for 30 seconds.
1
Ask someone which day of the “Whispers” book spoke to them the most this past week.
2
Play cats cradle with someone.
1
Tell someone your first memory.
1
Set up a coffee date with someone here for this next week.
2
Ask someone what their favorite praise song is.
3
Ask someone what they believe their spiritual gifts are.
3
Walk backwards for 10 steps.
1
Gather a small group and play London Bridge.
3
Vacuum in this area for 15 seconds.
4
Pretend you are playing hopscotch.
1
Tell someone what a recurring fear you have is.
3
Ask someone what their favorite dessert is.
1
Grab a partner and do the Irish dance steps from last week.
3
Go tell Kitt that you love, love, love this game! 

After 10 minutes the game was called and we counted up the coconuts. Then the winners were invited to my prize table where various really expensive and glamorous prizes awaited with varying price tags on them. 

How did this fit in? It's all because of a speaker I heard a long, long time ago. His illustration said that if we knew we were going to be transferred (permanently) to an island (Kukamunga?) and the currency there was coconuts, what would we do? We  would sell everything we had and ship coconuts over to Kukamunga. We would do everything we could to make sure we were providing for ourselves for the future. 

We are going to be permanently transferred someday. The place I'm going doesn't have money. I need to build up the bank there with that currency. Living like Christ wants me to (love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, gentleness, self-control--did I get them all?), helping others, keeping watch over my tongue. Doing those things doesn't get me in to my desired final destination (heaven, if you couldn't tell) but somehow it increases the great reward that Jesus has waiting for me. 
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